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Program
Your Biocomputer For Sales Success
By
Virden J. Thornton
Selling isn't something you do to people,
it's something you do for them. If you feel
as though you're being pushy or twisting
arms when you are interacting with
prospective customers or clients, you might
be doing just that. To be successful in
sales, you do need to be in control of the
sales process and you do need to ask
important questions, but you don't have to
be obnoxious, overbearing or demanding.
Look at selling as an opportunity to create
value for prospects. A good salesperson
uncovers needs that his customers or clients
have—needs they might not be aware of on a
conscious level--and helps them meet those
needs or find solutions to problems or
potential problems. When you sell in this
way, you are providing a valuable service to
your customers and prospects that they might
not be able to find elsewhere. Why shouldn't
they value a professional provider of
products or services as much as, or more
than, they value an investment broker, an
accountant, attorney or financial planner?
Psychologists teach that when you are
unhappy about the circumstances of your
life, your job, or your relationships; you
can make changes that will reduce or
eliminate these negative feelings. You can
accomplish this not by expecting other
people to change or the circumstances that
affect you to somehow be altered, but by
changing what you can control—yourself and
your attitudes. If negative attitudes are
blocking your sales or personal success, you
need to ask yourself the following
questions:
1.
What new attitudes or ways of thinking must
I develop to reach my sales objectives?
2.
What negative attitudes must I convert to
more positive views?
3.
How should I look at myself and my present
situation or assignment with my company or
firm?
Formulate honest answers and write them
down. This exercise in self-examination can
be painful since your ego may feel
discomfort at being questioned. Unless you
are willing to ask these questions and
honestly explore the answers, your old
attitudes will continue to block your
professional progress and enjoyment.
Once you determine what your new attitudes
will be, you need to write them in the form
of a positive, present tense affirmation.
(EXAMPLE: "I look forward to finding
products that will meet my customer's
needs.") Then you must read them aloud
at least twice a day preferably in the
morning and before bed at night. Repeating
this process on a daily basis will help you
reprogram your subconscious mind until the
new attitudes become an integral part of
your values and self-image. To receive
detailed instructions on how to program your
mind for sales success, check out my new
manual at:
http://TheSellingEdge.com/Organizing.htm
VIRDEN
THORNTON is the founder and President of
The
$elling Edge®, Inc.
a firm
specializing in sales, customer relations,
and management training and development.
Clients have included Sears Optical, Eastman
Kodak, IBM, Deloitte & Touché, Bank
One, Jefferson Pilot, and WalHMart
to name a few. Virden is the author of Prospecting:
The Key To Sales Success and the
best selling Building
& Closing the Sale, Fifty-Minute
series books and Close
That Sale, a video/audio tape
series published by Crisp Publications, Inc.
Menlo Park, California. He has also authored
a Self-Directed Learning series of sales,
coaching & team development,
telemarketing, and personal productivity
training guides. To obtain a substantial
discount on two of Virden's new manuals, 101
Sales Myths and Organizing
For Sales Success, just click on
either of the titles above.
Note:
You
can contact Virden at virden@TheSellingEdge.com.
You can also see an expanded biography
at http://www.TheSellingEdge.com/bio.htm.
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